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Night Owl Poetry – Dorinda Duclos

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Giving Thanks, Giving Back

12 Tuesday Nov 2013

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It’s that time of the year.  A time where we give thanks for all we have.  A time to gather with family & friends, around tables abundant with food.  So tell me, why is it only around this time of year, that we share with others the things we are thankful for?

As I see my friends on Facebook, posting about what they’re grateful for, from having their kids spend time with them, to finishing a list they started last month to whatever else happens to pop up that day, I have to ask them….Have you ever really sat down to consider what you’re truly thankful for, outside of the material things you have in life?  Aren’t there more important things than just the new car, the house, etc.  Yes, of course we are grateful for a roof over our heads, food on the table, a stable life, healthy children.  These are things to be grateful for EVERY day, not just during the month of November.

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We live in a very materialistic world.  What about those who have no materialistic property?  What do they have to be thankful for?  Have you ever stopped on the street and offered a homeless person your lunch, your gloves because it was cold?  Most of us walk by.  I had the privilege of knowing a man who wouldn’t think twice about buying someone a hotdog, even if it meant he went without, to make sure they ate, to give someone his gloves because they had nothing and shivered from the cold.  His family would joke that they had to keep buying him gloves.  That  man was my uncle, Gino.  Sadly, he left us ten years ago this past October.  He is who & what I am thankful for.  For showing me it isn’t all about what I have but what I am able to give so that others can also have.

This holiday season, and all year round, when you have that something extra you picked up from the grocery store because it was on sale, take it over to your local food bank.  They don’t just need help during the holidays, they need it all year long. If you’re not sure where your local food pantry/bank is located, you can call your municipal building, church or synagogue for further information.

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Veterans Day – We salute you

11 Monday Nov 2013

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Today we celebrate Veterans Day.  A day to honor those men and women who have fought in war, fought for our freedoms, so that we may live as a free nation.  Originally named Armistice Day, Congress changed the name in June 1954.  In 1971, Veterans Day was moved to the fourth Monday in October, but was later moved back to November 11 beginning in 1978.

On the 11th hour of the 11th day of the 11th month of 1918, an armistice, or temporary cessation of hostilities, was declared between the Allied nations and Germany in the First World War, then known as “the Great War.” Commemorated as Armistice Day beginning the following year, November 11th became a legal federal holiday in the United States in 1938. In the aftermath of World War II and the Korean War, Armistice Day became Veterans Day, a holiday dedicated to American veterans of all wars.1

Veteran’s Day is not to be confused with Memorial Day.  Memorial Day is the day we honor those who have made the ultimate sacrifice, who laid down their lives so that American’s could be free, free to choose, free to vote, free to live life.

We are and should ever remain “One Nation Under God, Indivisible,  With Liberty and Justice for All.”

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The next time you see a veteran, shake his or her hand, put your hand over your heart, just say Thank You.  You don’t have to support the war, but we do have to support our fellow Americans.

Thank you, to all the men and women of our military.  My heart goes out to you and your families.  I stand proud of my country because of you.

1. Source: http://www.history.com/topics/history-of-veterans-day

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Awww Nuts!

08 Friday Nov 2013

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allergies, Allergy, board of education, Children, dorindaduclos.com, education, food, life, nuts, Peanut, Peanut butter, policy, rules, school, schools, Tree nut allergy, wayne nj

No, I’m not referring to all the squirrels gathering for the Winter, or the facts that America is going nuts over this healthcare crap.  However, this is a serious issue and one I can definitely relate to.  Nut allergies.  I, myself, am allergic to peanuts & pine nuts.

A recent meeting with the Wayne Board of Ed had parents asking for stricter rules where the consumption of nuts is at issue, mainly, lunch hour.  Currently, at one of the elementary schools in town (we have 9), children with nut allergies must sit at a separate table with only one of their friends permitted to sit with them.  This will create more of a stigma for the child then allowing them to sit at a table where many friends are enjoying each others company.  In today’s society, any child who is considered “different” is open to harassment & bullying.  Children of elementary school age, who may not realize the risks to other children, can not be expected to understand “Johnny can’t have peanut butter”.  Education within the schools is crucial but not effective in younger children.

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While researching other districts in the area to see if they have a policy regarding food allergies, specifically nuts, I came across the letter that was sent out to Hawthorne parents whose children attend Roosevelt Elementary.    They laid out the following guidelines:

  • If the classroom has a daily snack time, please send your child in with a nut-free snack.  It is fine to send these products for lunch, which is eaten in the cafeteria.
  • We will not be doing any classroom projects that involve peanut butter (like bird feeders) or peanut shells (art projects).  Please do not send any of these projects into the classroom with you child.
  • During holiday parties, please do not enclose candy or other treats with holiday cards.
  • We have reviewed with the students the importance of washing their hands thoroughly after eating a peanut/tree nut product for lunch.  This is to protect anyone with a food allergy who might be exposed to traces of food which could be transferred from hands to objects such as chairs/table/recess balls and could cause a severe allergic, life-threatening reaction.
  • Similarly, if your child ate peanut butter for breakfast, we would greatly appreciate your making sure that his/her hands are washed with soap and water before leaving for school and that no traces of peanut butter are on their clothing.
  • Children are not allowed to share food at school, please stress the importance of this with your child as well.

Do you have enough time in the morning to make sure your child washes their hands with soap and water after eating peanut butter for breakfast?  What about brushing their teeth?  If you’re like most families today, you’re rushing out the door just to get the kids to school!  And why is it ok to have nuts at lunch time but not at snack time?  if a child is going to share with a friend, and they will even if you tell them not to, it really makes no difference on the time of day.

It’s not really a big deal to implement a “No Nut Zone” in a school building. It could save a child’s life.

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You’ve Been Canceled

07 Thursday Nov 2013

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How many of you are hearing these words on a daily basis?  Maybe it’s your neighbor telling his tale, or your co-worker who’s only part time and has to insure privately.  Maybe it’s you, finding out the healthcare coverage you had has now been taken away from you.  And not because of anything you yourself did, but because the Affordable Healthcare Act stepped in and replaced it.  Obviously, President Obama lied to you about your right to keep your current coverage. Welcome to Obamacare.

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I had a discussion with my mom last night.  I asked her if she had heard anything from her insurance company, specifically, Aetna.  She told me that she had received a letter from them last week stating that the healthcare plan she had would no longer be available and she would have to pick a new one.  The available plans were listed on the back of the letter.  Imagine her surprise when her plan, called the Value Plan, was listed on that letter.  Nowhere does it state that ‘she’ is not being offered the plan.  It’s a general statement and in my mother’s words “very poorly written”.  She then proceeded to check her Medicare booklet to see what plans they allowed.  Lo and behold, there was that Value plan in print.  It’s gets better.

A week later she received a letter from Aetna stating that she had not let Medicare know of her decision on medical & prescription plans and as such, her coverage with Aetna would terminate on 12/31/13.  Now, they gave her time to call to let them know if this had been a mistake.  Adding to this, she is going from a $0 deductible to $6700.  This is an out of pocket expense.  My mom will be 80 years old this month and now has to face an added expense in order to keep her current coverage.  I should also note that Medicare enrollment ends December 7th so why is Aetna canceling her now?

One of the major issues here is that insurance companies had limited time allowance to get information out to the people and in doing so have created even more confusion, only adding to the website debacle.  Obama likes to point the finger at the insurance companies who may have offered “substandard” plans, calling them “bad apples”.  The only bad apple here is the man who’s name is on the bill.

UPDATE: The first letter was correct, the Value plan is no longer available.  The only plan available is the Premiere.  Turns out, it all depends on what area of Northern NJ.  Now they’re basing coverage on location?  The deductible is, in fact $6700.  Mom said the woman she spoke to was wonderful and very caring.  I’ve heard horror stories from others who have been confronted with nasty agents.  Glad Mom didn’t have that experience.

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Drug Use Among Young Adults Skyrockets

06 Wednesday Nov 2013

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Drug abuse, garden state plaza, gun control, mall shooting, mental illness, paramus, Paramus New Jersey, Richard Shoop, Teaneck, Teaneck New Jersey, Westfield Garden State Plaza

The shooting at the Garden State Plaza in Paramus, NJ, had everyone buzzing yesterday.  A question about our safety when shopping or even leaving your own home, led to a discussion over gun control.  Now let me make myself clear.  I have no problem with people who choose to own or carry a gun, under the proper laws (permits, training, etc).  That being said, several gun owners came out in defense of their 2nd Amendment rights.  But this wasn’t really about gun control, other than the fact that his brother allegedly owned the gun, so questions were raised as to where it was kept and how the shooter was able to get hold of it.  No, this was about 20 year old Richard Shoop, of Teaneck, NJ,  a young man who couldn’t cope with whatever was happening in his life, eventually taking his own life in a secluded area of the mall.

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We can be grateful that his intention was to harm only himself and no one else.  He fired off shots at the ceiling, escalator, but never directly at anyone.  Nevertheless, he caused a major panic among hundreds of people and he got law enforcement officials and the media to take notice.

This young man had a history of drug use but he also held a job at a local pizza parlor.  Interviews with his boss depict him as a “nice kid”.  What was also brought up during the conversation on my Facebook wall was mental illness.  This has not been mentioned in the media, nor has his family made any statement regarding the matter.  His brother, Kevin, had this to say, “”We’re not sure exactly what caused him to do this, and we’re all devastated. My brother intended to harm nobody else but himself. He just, sadly, decided to make … an act of self-indulgence by taking his own life publicly. And it’s a tragedy to us all,” he said.  Kevin denies the gun belonged to him.  When asked he replied, “no comment” <regarding drugs & the gun>.

Drug use among young adults has skyrocketed.  In the past year, my daughter has lost high school friends to overdoses.  The heroin epidemic is horrific.  In the coming weeks, I’ll be meeting with some of the people who have been directly affected by this.  I know it won’t stop the rampage but at least others will know there really is help out there.  Stay tuned.

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